Like all Filipinos around the world, I am just mentally exhausted and emotionally drained. I just want to block everything and do nothing. Typhoon Haiyan (Yolanda) is way too much to bear, both her wrath and her aftermath.

But them …Channing Tatum tweeted and my heart stopped LOL

Here’s to all typhoon victims, Filipinos and foreigners on the ground and Filipinos abroad, there is love for us. Keep doing what you are doing, we can get thru this!

Thanks Twitter and celebrities for the tweets… it means a lot to us

     Channing Tatum     ‏@channingtatum        12 Nov       Typhoon #Haiyan devastated the Philippines. Millions need food & shelter. Text REDCROSS to 90999 to donate $10. GIVE: 
      Julianne Hough     ‏@juliannehough              12 Nov       For every repost #peoplewater will donate $1 towards clean water in the Philippines. Purchase a bottle…
      Marco Rubio     ‏@marcorubio                11 Nov       Pray for the Philippines. May God give them the strength to recover and rebuild.

     Aaron Carter     ‏@AARONCARTER          12 Nov Thousands of people w/ nowhere to go waiting for clean water/food/care PLS. HELP #Philippines

     Kylie Jenner     ‏@KylieJenner                12 Nov        Praying for the Philippines

     Katy Perry     ‏@katyperry         12 Nov        @UNICEF is rushing supplies to meet children’s needs for safe water, food, medicine & shelter. HELP HERE:  #Haiyan
      Vanessa Hudgens     ‏@VanessaHudgens            12 Nov      Brothers & sisters let’s help each other out. You can also donate $10 to @UNICEFUSA by texting RELIEF to 864233. God bless. #haiyan
     Cindy Crawford     ‏@CindyCrawford        11 Nov  #TyphoonHaiyan destruction is heartbreaking. Some great organizations doing important work. Support however you can. 
     Hillary Clinton     ‏@HillaryClinton     12 Nov  Text AID to 80108 to give $10 to the @mGiveFoundation to help with Typhoon Haiyan disaster relief effort. I’m doing it, I hope you will too!

     Conan O’Brien     ‏@ConanOBrien    12 Nov   Text REDCROSS to 90999 to make a $10 donation to help #Haiyan victims. Give more here: .

     Maroon 5     ‏@maroon5              12 Nov          Join us and support relief & recovery in the Philippines following Typhoon Haiyan where 9.5 million are affected 
     Harry Styles     ‏@Harry_Styles            12 Nov          Millions in the Philippines need clean water & shelter now. @oxfamgb is there: donate to their #Haiyan appeal!    
      Patrick Stewart     ‏@SirPatStew       12 Nov                    Millions of families in the Philippines need help now. Donate to @WFP food relief http://bit.lyHF1w5n @WFPUSA#Haiyan
     Suze Orman     ‏@SuzeOrmanShow                11 Nov       To the Philippine people hang in there. Stay strong   Hindi kailanman mawawala ang inaasahan ng aking mga kaibigan ng Diyos ang mananaig
     Rob Thomas     ‏@ThisIsRobThomas                9 Nov       Following Philippines Typhoon Haiyan, Here’s How You Can Help  via @HuffPostImpact
      Ewan McGregor     ‏@mcgregor_ewan                12 Nov        Support UNICEF’s emergency relief efforts for kids in the #Philippines. How to help:  #Haiyan
     Josh Duhamel     ‏@joshduhamel                11 Nov   Send hope to those in the Philippines and stay informed @philredcross. #redcross
      Sandara Park     ‏@krungy21                9 Nov       Please pray for the Philippines cause of the typhoon damage. Sana ok kayong lahat.
     Michael Kors      ‏@MichaelKors       9 Nov Help us help @WFP! They’re on the ground in the Philippines responding to #Haiyan. Text MKHUNGER TO 50555 to donate $5 #WatchHungerStop

      Mandy Moore     ‏@TheMandyMoore                10 Nov       PLEASE RT: Millions of families in the Philippines need your help now. Donate to @WFP food relief  @WFPUSA #Haiyan

     Elijah Wood     ‏@woodelijah                10 Nov    PLEASE RT: Millions of families in the Philippines need your help now. Donate to @WFP food relief  @WFPUSA #Haiyan

     Ben Stiller     ‏@RedHourBen                10 Nov     Help @WFP deliver emergency food relief  to the Phillipines by donating now: 
      Bruno Mars     ‏@BrunoMars                11 Nov       Millions of families in the Philippines need your help now. Donate to @WFP food relief  @WFPUSA
      Katie Holmes     ‏@KatieHolmes212              12 Nov       My heart goes out to everyone in the Philippines.
      Dayanara Torres MU93     ‏@DayanaraPR            8 Nov     Oremos X #Filipinas Lets all take a moment &pray 4The #Philippines as they were hit by Typhoon this morning! My💗&🙏r w U,my beloved 2nd home

     Cheryl Burke     ‏@CherylBurke           11 Nov      My heart is with everyone in The Philippines. Thank you to the volunteers & @philredcross for your relief efforts.

     Rihanna     ‏@rihanna                9 Nov       Navy please keep the people of The Philippines in your prayers!!! I was just there and this truly breaks my heart!!!

      Nicholas Sparks     ‏@NicholasSparks                11 Nov       Still worried about people in the Philippines … Such a terrible tragedy!
     Jeremy Lin     ‏@JLin7                12 Nov       Prayers for those in the Philippines..Join @nbacares as they support those impacted by the typhoon #perspective 
     Angie Harmon     ‏@Angie_Harmon                8 Nov       PLEASE RT!  Support UNICEF’s emergency relief efforts for kids in the #Philippines. How to help:  #Haiyan
     Sarah Jessica Parker     ‏@SJP                11 Nov       You can also text RELIEF to 864233 to donate $10 to @unicefusa‘s relief fund. My best and heartfelt thanks. Sj x
      Linkin Park     ‏@linkinpark                11 Nov       Join us and support relief & recovery in the Philippines following Typhoon Haiyan where 9.5 million are affected 
     Vanessa Lachey     ‏@VanessaLachey                11 Nov       Children & families in the #Philippines are on my mind. Please support UNICEF’s emergency relief efforts!:  #Haiyan
     Chris Rock     ‏@chrisrock                11 Nov       Humanitarian needs in the #Philippines will be massive. Text RELIEF to 864233 to donate $10 to @UNICEF or visit …
     Enrique Iglesias     ‏@enrique305                11 Nov       People in the #Philippines need our help right away! Please consider donating to #Haiya disaster relief. 
     Paulina Rubio     ‏@paurubio                11 Nov       Let’s continue to pray for #Philippines  #Filipinas 🙏🙏🙏 May God comfort them. Love you too friend”
     Victoria Beckham     ‏@victoriabeckham                11 Nov       Our thoughts are with those in the Philippines. Please help support typhoon #Haiyan relief  x vb

     Pau Gasol     ‏@paugasol                10 Nov       All my support to the entire Filipino population. More than 10.000 deaths and millions of people affected by #Haiyan. #PrayForThePhilippines

     Susan Sarandon     ‏@SusanSarandon                11 Nov       The most powerful storm in history Typhoon #Haiyan has affected an estimated 4 million children. Donate now – 
     Brooke Burke-Charvet     ‏@brookeburke                11 Nov       Humanitarian needs in the #Philippines will be massive. Text RELIEF to 864233 to donate $10 to @UNICEF or visit 
     Alicia Keys     ‏@aliciakeys                10 Nov       To the people of the Philippines my heart is with you #prayers #Haiyan
     Clay Aiken     ‏@clayaiken                11 Nov       #UNICEF rushing medicine, water & nutrition to kids affected by #Haiyan. Text RELIEF to 864233 to donate $10 to @UNICEFUSA

     Alyssa Milano     ‏@Alyssa_Milano                11 Nov       Latest numbers from Typhoon Haiyan / How you can help: /via @ABC

     Ellen DeGeneres     ‏@TheEllenShow                11 Nov       The devastation from Typhoon Haiyan is heartbreaking. You can help the Red Cross relief efforts here. 
     Cameron Diaz Online     ‏@camerondiazorg                11 Nov       “@TheEllenShow: The devastation from Typhoon Haiyan is heartbreaking. You can help the Red Cross relief efforts here 
     Shakira     ‏@shakira                11 Nov       .@UNICEF is rushing supplies to meet children’s needs for food, water and shelter. Typhoon #Haiyan. Donate now 
     Pope Francis     ‏@Pontifex                9 Nov       I ask all of you to join me in prayer for the victims of Typhoon Haiyan / Yolanda especially those in the beloved islands of the Philippines
     Christina Aguilera     ‏@xtina                9 Nov       Let’s help families hit by typhoon #haiyan. My friends @WFP are on the ground. Help here . Thank you! XoXtina
     Selena Gomez     ‏@selenagomez                8 Nov       Support UNICEF’s emergency relief efforts for kids in the #Philippines. How to help:  #Haiyan
     Chelsea Clinton     ‏@ChelseaClinton                11 Nov       Continuing to send thoughts & prayers to all impacted by Typhoon #Haiyan in the Philippines. How to help: 
     Jerry Brown     ‏@JerryBrownGov                11 Nov       Our thoughts & prayers are with the people of the Philippines & California’s Filipino-Americans with loved ones impacted by Typhoon Haiyan
     Maria Sharapova     ‏@MariaSharapova                11 Nov       My thoughts are with everyone affected by Typhoon Haiyan in the Philippines. Let’s help the survivors together.

Kalibo Ati-Atihan

January 3, 2009 — Kalibo, Aklan, Philippines

Check out the article posted below. My first thought after I read the feature was… who the heck is Queen Maniwang-tiwang???


To the Aklan Reporter especially to Chita de la Cruz – Heap, thank you so much for the wonderful feature. It means so much to us to be thought of by fellow Aklanons.

Oh yes, the ultimate question: why Ati-Atihan on my wedding day?

It was actually my brainchild, with of course a co-conspirator. A year ago, I told my good friend and events coordinator Rommel Constantino how I envision my wedding.

Filipiniana. Tribal. Elegant. Fun. Loud. Romantic.

Boiled down to our grandiose idea: a group of colorful Ati-Atihan tribe complete with the drums as part of my entourage. And I know our dear Kalibo Ati-Atihan celebation is also religious and cultural event by tradition.

You guys should have seen Celso’s reaction when I initially told him about the whole idea. He thought I was just joking. I guess they dont do it in Iloilo *wink* . Or am I just pure nuts?

Well, what can he do, hThe Kisse married a full-bown Akeanon.

I was so happy I trusted my guts. The Ati-Atihan dancing outside the church was the most personal celebration I can think of. Cameras were clicking and rolling. Kids and the elders, pinoys and Fil-Ams were all having fun. It was so Kalibo. So me.

And we took it a little further — a photoshoot at the town plaza with the Ati-Ati’s.

It was crazy. Tricycle drivers, vendors, street children, tambays and a whole lot more were watching. An assistant was holding my cathedral train. Three photographers and two videographers from Mayad Video Studios were barking orders as if there is a production going on. My make-up artist was following me for a touch-up.

The last time I was at Pastrana Park was during my CAT 1 days marching the march. HereTricycle I am now in a couture gown by Eric de los Santos (House of Laurel) and I just meekly followed my crew. I dont know whats going on. I looked at Jose Rizal’s statue for guidance.

My photographer, Chito Vecina of the Philippine Daily Inquirer, then bellowed at the top of his lungs:  “SAYAW!!!”

I lost it. The beat of the drum was enticing and the sound of the lyre was so refreshing. Childhood memories came back and I started dancing. I guided my husband to the rhythm and I am so surprised he caught on fast.



I am having fun. I am in love. I am carrying our second born.

By the way, Queen Maniwang-tiwang is the wife of the Ati King, Marikudo. They bartered Panay Island to Datu Puti for a Golden Salakot.

Ha Ha Ha! To think my minor subject in U.P. was History!

Thank you, thank you, thank you.  Thank you Kalibo for welcoming me again after 14 long years of absence.


NOTE: This is NOT a news report, so do not quote me 🙂 . This is only a humble blog trying to convey what I heard, and sharing my thoughts & ideas to help Aklan.




The morning of Saturday 230am, my husband received a call. It was from my sister in law informing us that Alta Tierra in Iloilo City experienced the worst flash flooding in the history of Iloilo. Typhoon Frank (international code name Fengshen) hit Western Visayas.


I was on an immediate text brigade mode, telling everyone from California to New York (I got unlimited text messaging from AT&T), of what has happened. The news was not on-line yet, but that didn’t stop me: all afternoon, I listened to Bombo Radyo Ilonggo edition.  I kept informing everyone I know of the damage that was causing my in-law’s and my adopted Ilonggo home.


True enough, the night of Saturday, Iloilo was on TV Patrol news.


But what about Aklan? I wondered and pondered. ‘No news is good news’, as they said. Friends asked me if I heard anything, but I said, oh well we had survived Undang in 1985, so this shouldn’t be bad. Now, I believe “No news is so EXTREMELY BAD news’


I almost flipped when I heard bits and pieces of news. Families in Aklan text’ed families in Manila, who sent out emails and phone calls about the worst thing that had happened to my beloved hometown.


First email I got was this: ‘10 times worse than bagyo undang. No electricity and water supply since saturday. indi ako kapadaea it kuwarta, no banks. no boats as well. there was a MUD FLOOD in Kalibo and hasta sa may second floor namon! And its now BYOB: Bring Your Own Bangkay (haul your own dead corpse) to the town plaza (unconfirmed)’ 


Second email, from a different source: Hanggang tuhod and putik sa buong town ng kalibo, madaming barangays ang nawala na sa mapa ng kalibo, even yung bliss community wala na…bubong na lang ng bhay ang nakikita. Just now, 115 dead bodies (unconfirmed) ang nasa plaza ng Kalibo…they don’t know the number of people died and missing.’ ~ From Roxanne T. Oquendo, forwarded by Anna Liza, New York. Holy cow.


Third email, different source: “Umapaw and Aklan river and it got to the point where the water was above the bridge papuntang Numancia. The bridge was damaged although I don’t know if it’s still passable. remember the shopping center? the water reached halos sa bubong eot ana kuno. It is also true that nobody’s selling anything because basically nothing was left. There isn’t any water to be had anywhere.” ~ From Cheryl Sevilla, forwarded by Ruben Mobo, Tennessee.


At this point, I started to call. Rommel Constantino, my dear friend and confidante, answered his cell phone. He just charged his cell phone for 50 pesos from a Korean Store that has generator.


What freaking happened?


I can hear my other friend Michelle rattling on and on I cannot understand what she was saying. My other friend Ariel, a non-stop talker too, cannot speak. I begged Rommel not to loose it and start talking calmly. I reminded him we were on the staff of our ill-fated high school publication, and it is now the time to speak up matter-of-fact.


Below is the best account of what had happened. Please remember that I have never done news reporting in my life, and my only source of information is my 3 closest friends who are in a state of disbelief, shock, exhaustion and full of mosquito bites. And this is just what happened in Kalibo, and they admitted they know nothing about the fates of Numancia, Banga, Malinao, Makato, Ibajay and all towns surrounding the Aklan River . I am also typing this as fast as I can, ignoring grammar and sentence structure, so that I may be able to reach Akeanons all over the world thru my emails, blogs, texting and non-stop speaking abilities.


So, here goes…


Friday, June 21, evening – People are preparing for the food festival in honor of San Juan Bautista. Radio said it was Signal No1. It started to rain hard, so people just went home.


            Saturday, June 22


2am – Heavy rains. Strong winds. Now it was Signal #3. Picture Undang.


                        5am-6am – Ceiling and rooftops blown away. Aklan River was rising.


9am-10am – Kalibo proper is starting to be flooded, waist deep. Strong currents and non-stop raining. People hold on to bamboos for floatation. To move from one place to another, people jump from rooftops to rooftops. Houses in lower C Laserna are gone.


3pm-4pm – Wind stopped. Water is at 7-8 feet, Kalibo Shopping Center now submerged. The entire Kalibo town was quiet, other than the sound of the falling rain.


7pm-8pm – In the dead of the night, with no lights nor electricity, people are screaming ‘tabang’. Children wailing, women crying. Some people, who owned 2-floor houses, refused to accept their neighbors for the fear that the added weight may collapse the house.


             Sunday, June 22


Sunrise– People got out of their shelters to see water and mud, tricycles upside down, boulders everywhere, dead pigs. It was like a scene from a B-rated zombie movie. First thing people looked for: DRINKING WATER.


6am – People start to walk to the market for food. They walked in 2-feet mud. People lined up to buy bread (plastic still covered with mud), canned goods, medicine. Prices skyrocketed: rice that was PhP80 is now PhP150 (good for one day for a family of 6), candles 3 pcs for PhP100, tricycle trip PhP 1000 to-fro Kalibo Airport.


Everyone was in quiet shock, saying a low ‘kamusta’, and moved on to go to where their family & shelter was.


Everyone salvaged what was left. They tried to dry, using water from the rain, their clothing and beddings. Furnitures (tables, chairs) are damaged but usable. Magsig-magsig anay kuno, ah


The Provincial Hospital is damaged too, and the new PhP 45 Million CT Scan equipment is all lost. Where do the sick go? Stay at home and hope infection (feet are scraped and punctured due to walking on mud) doesn’t spread. That is why the corpse are now lying and embalmed at the town plaza, for we don’t have a hospital.


The rest is history. You will hear about it. (Dont blame me for giving the bad news, and I had wished I was just misinformed).


Below are some pictures of the aftermath, forwarded by Fritz Angeles. Pictures taken by Aaron Concepcion.





























courtesy of godfrey concepcionHay naku….


Okay, I asked, how can we help? Here’s what they said:


  1. Prayers. Jokingly, they said are too tired, too loss of words to do this.
  2. Media coverage.  If you know anyone in ABS-CBN, GMA, Bombo, Bandera, etc please beg them to cover Aklan. Remember, press coverage and pressure to the government will open emergency funds. Further, call all of our local Akeanon associations for help. If you know even a drop of Akeanon blood, inform them of what happened. If you need to forward my article, please do so, until a decent professionally-written write-up happens. Repost, forward, link on your blog, utilize Friendster/Multiply/Facebook. Anything, everything, everyday.
  3. Send money. Don’t do by bank (as for my write-up), send via Western Union or money order. Send it to your family or a person you know and trust.
  4. Relief goods. Airports are open. Roads to/fro Iloilo are passable. The following are needed:
    1. water
    2. katol or insect repellant
    3. canned goods
    4. rice
    5. lots of blankets
    6. towels
    7. flash light and batteries
    8. shoes
    9. jackets
    10. medicine: anti-diarrhea, vitamins, antibiotic, acetaminophen, cough/cold meds
    11. candles and matches
    12. soap & shampoo, toothpaste & toothbrush
    13. disinfectant
    14. cell phone load
    15. something to pass time: playing cards, books, pen & paper, radio
    16. children stuff (by the way, they are so traumatized)
    17. umbrellas
    18. bible, rosary and religious items
    19. etc
  5. Call them and when you get a hold of them, assure that we are doing something. Assure and reassure. Akeanons are quietly tough and I sensed morale is so low. They felt so alone. They cannot even talk to their neighbors: what for, they asked. Daily text will help and just say ‘Im here thinking of you’.

One last note: I have lived thru several hurricanes in North Carolina and Georgia. Hurricane Fran, Category 5 was the worst I experienced, having no electricity amidst freezing temperatures. But the County of Cumberland had this hour-by-hour Weather Channel and evacuation routes. Further, Americans fill their refrigerators and pantry with food, water and supplies. After the devastation, electricity was up the next day. FEMA came within the next few days.


It is so sad to even think that we don’t have the Red Cross, coast guard, Salvation Army or anyone who can help our fellow Aklanons. This is their 5th day of surviving.


Please help in any way you can.  All the way.




Cheryl Joy Martinez-Avaricio, from Sacramento, California

Kalibo Pilot Elementary School 1980-1985

Aklan College 1985-1989

And a proud Akeanon from Bulwang, Numancia, Aklan



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********************** UPDATES *********************



The much-awaited, “decent professionally-written write-ups” are starting to emerge. Thank goodness!


Unfortunately, these news reports made me more depressed. Kailangan talaga ng tulong! Anyway, below are some newsclips, videos and articles. Thank you all for sharing the link.


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06/27/08 –  —> Journalist Boy Ryan Zabal is back writing!

06/28/08 –’t-be-used-for-classes

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Here’s a link of a website that has a running list various organizations and donation centers, from Manila to California. Their detailed contact information is listed. Feel free to check them out and choose the organization you feel most comfortable sending your donations to.


I heard one organization will send your balikbayan box to Aklan for $20, as long as it includes relief items! Who-hoo! So please donate NOW!


One of my biggest personal struggles is getting my hair curled. Successfully, that is.The Farrah Faucet look. Cindy Crawford’s. Dawn Zulueta’s.

The long, wavy, seductive hair …. Wow… Sexy! Who wouldnt want this????

                                              This is what I am talking about!

It seemed that every time I tried to perm my hair, it ended up in disaster and my friends screaming in complete disgust. My school I.D.’s captured those moments, and now I dont blame them for being terrorized at the sight. Never talagang bumagay!

<- Me in High School, Circa 1987

      Me in College, Circa 1993 ->

Last summer, I tried again… I think I looked good… but why is the picture blurred?

                                       Kahit 2007 na, hindi talaga tinablan ng camera….

I was about to do another drastic curling attempt, without hubby’s approval, when I got a call from the most important person in my life — my hairdresser.  She asked me if I remembered my hair being cut 12 inches and then sent to charity.

Hah! How can I forget? That was the day I hated my hair so much that I had it chopped off.

Wigs for Kids, a non-profit organization, received my donated hair. This organization collects hair to make it into wigs for kids that lost their hair from chemotherapy treatments. Apparently human hair makes the best wigs. I gave them a hair that was healthy (I got no split ends), untreated (I don’t color my hair, got no time nor money) and clean (wala po akong kuto).

I always forget that I am God’s work of art. My divine Lord created me for a reason. He gave me this long, black, shiny hair… SO IT CAN BECOME A WIG.


                                  O sige na nga, I’ll love my hair na! Balik straight!

I guess this is my first post outside of friendster. I actually enjoy blogging now, and someone recommended , so hey, might as well try. Comments, suggestions, violent reactions are all welcome!

To start off, here’s my wedding slideshow, giving you’all a glimpse of a civil wedding, vegas-con-Cheryl style. Got hitched back in December 7, 2003. Photoshoot was held in Bellagio Botanical Gardens (free, pose ka lang), wedding ceremony was in Monte Carlo Hotel & Resort ($195.00) and reception was at the Officers Club, Nellis Air Force Base (buffet, para tipid he he).

In a nutshell, we were so exhausted planning everthing I didnt experience having bridal jitters. Too much work! Can you imagine me, the bride in full gear, calling every 5 minutes checking if the cake passed thru the security gates of Nellis Air Force Base? Having a $50 bill inside my stockings (er… bra) , so I can pay the minister right after the march?

Boy, I cant wait for my church wedding in 2009, to be held in Boracay Island, Philippines (Kalibo is my hometown), where I can have my very own wedding coordinator — for a change!

Visit the photo slide show of my civil wedding 12/07/03, Las Vegas, Nevada.

See you in Aklan for a memorable CHURCH WEDDING in 2009!